I have ignored a lot over the last 17 years. I have said nothing and just listened to mom go on and on about your antics. I have to address this.
You said my mom has emotionally abused you since you were 14.
Oh, let's see here. Which of these events can be seen as abuse? Let's run through them shall, we??
Was it when she welcomed you with open arms into her home as another daughter when your own mother beat you? When she signed the papers to become your legal guardian? When she re-decorated your room however you wanted so you would feel like it was truly your home?
Was it when you were a junior in high school and decided to get married? When she told you that she would support you in whatever you wanted and pay for your wedding if you waited 7 months until that summer? When you moved back to your real mom's just so she would sign the papers for you to get married at 15? When you broke her heart into a million pieces when you left?
Was it when you gave birth to your first child at 16 and she boasted about her first grandchild? When she loved that child to distraction?
Was it when you married husband #2 and she paid for and did everything for your whole wedding? When you gave birth to son #2 at 18 and she welcomed her 2nd grandchild into the world?
Was it when she paid for your rent, utilities, and tuition to go to Paralegal school when husband #2 turned psyco? When you decided that being a paralegal "just wasn't your thing"?
Was it when you and husband #3 wanted to move onto her land, her father's land, so she gave you 4 acres? Or was it when she had to buy that land back from the bank when you filed for bankruptcy and you didn't put the bank loan on it? WHEN SHE HAD TO BUY BACK HER OWN LAND??
Was it when the people came to repossess your mobile home that had been sitting empty for months and they tossed your crap that you had left in it out the back door? And she had to clean up your garbage and crap and filth that had been sitting inside your home for months?
Or was it when you cheated on husband #3 and he took your son #3 with him and you let him(!!) because he wasn't good enough for you anymore (note: he was the best thing that ever happened to you) and she stood by you still?
Was it when she paid for your kids clothes, toys, furniture, food or anything else you might not be able to provide for them?
Was it when you moved 1000s of miles away with husband #4 and let your 2 Elementary school kids come home from school to an empty apartment with no phone to call for help if they needed it? When she paid for a cell phone for them to have because she worried to death about them?
Was it when you moved back and she watched your 2 oldest kids everyday of the summer so wouldn't have to stay home by themselves? When she took them to work with her?
Was it when son #1 decided he couldn't take your abuse anymore and moved in with his dad?
Or was it when you decided that she (or anyone else in our family) shouldn't see your son #2 because we have too much drama in our family? Ummm...YOU are the drama!! Our lives would have been pretty dull if not for you and we would have been fine with that. We haven't seen or heard from him in over a year??
Is it when you won't let your son #2 see his own brother because you think he might tell him something about our family missing him?
You selfish, lying, piece of dirt...tell me which of those events consists of emotional abuse. I would really like to know. Oh I see now, they all point to emotional abuse. Too bad you can't see that it is pointing right from you.
signed,
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oh man! she seems like a piece of work and your mom (and all of you really) has been a saint to put up with all that she has. and still love her. i understand a mothers love, i really do. but your mom is way more saintly then i would have been in the same situation.
sorry your family is hurting and that this continues. this chick sounds like she really needs help - just not the kind you all have been providing up to this point.
Thanks Deb, you are right about her needing help, or maybe she should just take her bi-polar meds like a good girl, hmm?
I have known your mother now for, well, 20 years, and she still hugs my neck when I run into her at the grocery store, local restaurants, etc.
I have heard about the drama with this particular person for years and was not much impressed with her the times that I actually met her. She is a psycho and the type of person to JUST KEEP STIRRING THAT POT because they are miserable and have made horrible decisions in their own lives, therefore, want everyone around them to be horribly miserable, too.
Yep Nikki, you know what I'm saying. Thanks for the comment and the support :-)
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